How To Catch Lucky Girl Syndrome

They're just lucky, nothing like that ever happens to me! Have you ever caught yourself saying something like that before? Well, we're going to turn any so-called bad luck around and before too long you're going to have lucky girl syndrome and people could very well be saying that you are one of the luckiest girls they know!

So what lucky girl syndrome really boils down to is one thing. Your perception. When you perceive that you are  just a lucky person, it seems that the world around you starts responding to that. Most people are completely held back by their perception of themselves. They perceive themselves to be unlucky and  that in turn seems to become a self-fulfilling prophecy. They can't seem to see all the good things around them and all the good things happening to them no matter what.

So how do you turn this around and become someone who has lucky girl syndrome? In this article, I'm going to give you some tips which are going to blow your mind and get you so excited when you start seeing all the effects of your so-called good luck show up in your life.

 I have seen this showing up again and again with somebody I am very close to, who has an extreme case of lucky girl syndrome. It seems that opportunities and being in the right place at the right time just seems to happen to her naturally. 

For example, earlier today we were out having lunch and wanted to stop to pick up some baklava from a particular shop in our area.  We live in a beach town and this  particular shop happened to be right in the middle of the tourist area where it is impossible to get parking. Sure enough, just as we drove up the store we noticed that a spot was clear right in front of where she wanted to go. 

As we were driving we were speaking about an old friend that She hadn't seen for a while. Just as we're talking about this we see their vehicle in front of us. In the 10 years that we have known this person we have never seen them out in traffic.

We then go to look at some homes for sale only to discover that the guard Gate was closed. We're just about to leave when the gardener waves us down and tells us just to pull up a little further and the gate will automatically open up. We had just been talking about lucky girl syndrome and when that happened we just turned and looked at each other and started cracking up. It is a real thing guys. I've seen it happen with this particular person over and over again!

So let me ask you this question, if you believe that things will always work out for you no matter what, how would you act? What would you think? Why not cast yourself as the starring role in the movie of your life. where things just seem to work out for you and you are the luckiest person. That is your character, someone who is just naturally lucky! 

Even when so called bad things happen like when I got cancer, You can turn how you see things around totally by choosing to think differently. I had all sorts of so-called lucky things happen to me, but that's a story for another day

In his book awaken the Giant within Tony Robbins talks about this thing that we have in our brain called the reticular activating system. We all have it, let me give you an example of what it is. 

A few years ago I drove a black Mustang GT. It was a stick shift and a lot of fun. However, it wasn't until I actually got this mustang that I realized how many were on the road. everywhere I went I saw black Mustangs. Why, my reticular activating system.

We have so much information coming at us from all directions in our life and we can't possibly assimilate all. What your reticular activating system does is filter out the things that it thinks you don't want to see and focus on the things that you do.

 Because my black Mustang was now in my Consciousness I saw it everywhere. it had become important to me so I saw black Mustangs all over the place. 

So if you want to step into the starring role of your movie where you are a lucky girl then you need to start believing that way. You need to start thinking That you are the heroine of your story and no matter what may happen, you are going to come out of this because everything around you is conspiring in your favor. You have lucky girl syndrome.

 So let's talk about how to develop this.

The first step is all about your perception of yourself. When You Believe that you are lucky and things work out for you, your reticular activating system goes into overdrive and you automatically start seeing  opportunities and events that before you might not have seen. 

When you are always griping about how terrible and how unlucky you are, that's what you're going to focus on. The power of your perception is huge. changing your script and how you see yourself will literally Change the World Around you.

 If you want more info about this I suggest you watch my video on how I reinvented myself when I turned 40.

Step two is practicing gratitude.  Every day, start noticing how so-called luck starts showing up in your life. I suggest you get a lucky notebook in which you write these incidents down. Once you believe that you are lucky, you're going to start having that evidence showing up in your life. 

 Bring out your lucky notebook and start writing how this luck starts showing up or manifesting in your life. I encourage you to jot down five things every night before you go to bed and think about those things. be grateful for them. even if it's small.

 It could be something as little as finding some change on the street, or getting that parking place, or noticing a  kind gesture from a friend or co-worker.  The more you practice gratitude, the more things you're going to notice in your life to be grateful for.

If you are a chronic complainer you might not even realize it.  That's a sure way to dim lucky girl syndrome. Break the habit and be consciously grateful instead.

Which brings us to the third point .

 If you want to catch lucky girl syndrome, start focusing on the good in your life. Something that I noticed about lucky girl syndrome is the word syndrome. and you have to believe it as such. 

I looked up in the dictionary the definition of syndrome and this is what it said:

" a group of signs and symptoms that occur together and characterize a particular abnormality or condition."

When you start to think of yourself as having this syndrome, then you can't help but notice all the good and luck coming into your life, your reticular activating system will go into hyperdrive as you notice All the good more and more. 

Choosing to believe that you have lucky girl syndrome, makes life a lot more exciting and magical and wonderful to live. Life can be tough if we choose to think it is. 

However, if we choose to believe that we have lucky girl syndrome, then no matter what we go through it gives us the fortitude to not give up. I can look back on my own life at difficult situations and think to myself how lucky I am that that happened. At the time of course we may feel the opposite but when we choose to believe that we have lucky girl syndrome and that things always work out for us, one way or another they do!

Thanks so much for watching guys and remember the power to be the luckiest girl in the world and to transform your life is already within you.